there was this game where I made a NAP with another race. That other race was Borg, and Borg wanted to be permitted to cross my territory with probes, so the NAP was worded:
Fine so far.Borders agreed upon. Ships may cross the borders, but only single ships, not more than one at a time. Those single ships may not make planetfalls, and may neither attack or be attacked.
I was Colonies however, and when my Priv ally wanted to attack Borg (no NAP between Priv and Borg), he towed one of my Geminis, fully loaded with fighters and set to "mine sweep", which in turn enabled the Priv to rob the whole Borg fleet. Of course the Gemini made no attacks and no planetfall...
What do you think of something like that? Would this make me a backstabber in your eyes?