Ok so I went to the cinema yesterday and watched EP 7.
As an aside do not bring your 5 year old son to a 2 hour plus movie with nothing to do. He will run around and ask his parents all sorts of questions the entire theater can hear.
As for the movie itself you can see that JJ Abrams directed it from the opening which I did enjoy. (EP 1,2,3 looked like a Disney movie)
I did enjoy the movie in the end but it did feel like a remake of EP 4 at least half the time.
I will go see EP 8 when it comes out to find out if she is really that strong in the force or did they need 15 more minutes in EP 7.
Just cause I am paranoid does not mean they are not out to get me.